Growing Up Types – Who Blamed You?

Adult Wisdom – Blaming other people for your problems will keep the problems around.  Do you know people that always blame other people for their problems? Nothing that happens to them is ever their fault, they won't admit to being any part of the problem.  The Monarch butterfly has to migrates 2500 miles in the winter to Mexico or California for two reasons. They cannot withstand freezing weather in the northern and central continental climates in the winter. Also, the larval food plants does not grow in Mexico or California, so the spring generation must fly back north to places where the plants are plentiful. If this butterfly decides not to migrate because they do not want to travel 2500 miles one way in the winter and another 2500 miles back in the spring, that decision will cause them to start to die of the cold temperatures in their northern feeding grounds or of starvation in the warm climate of Mexico or California.  Whose fault is that? If a butterfly want to be successful in its reproduction process it have to take the responsibility of its decisions. Either one of these decisions can be disaster or life for them, therefore they must make the decision to migrate to survive. If they do not they cannot blame anyone but themselves for the results.  Blaming other people is immature and you cannot get adult results with immature actions.