Growing Up Types: Haste Makes Waste

Adult Wisdom – Do not be in a hurry to make major decisions in your life. Take your time, research the issue and weight the things that would want you to say yes and the things that would make you want to say no, and then consider what you can handle best. Once you have made the decision do not get angry when the issues that you knew would come up that do not agree with what you want (those things that made you consider saying no). For example do not choose a ski vacation just because it looks good on television if you know you hate winter, do not select a car with a color you know that you hate just because the price is what you like unless you plan to paint the car (you may not want to change the paint because that lowers the value of the car) or selecting relationships with people that you think that you are going to change their ways that you do not like. Have you ever seen a butterfly in a hurry, some of them travel very slowly, you can catch them most of the time if you watch them closely. They are not concerned about what happens other than getting to their expected end. Take your time and make a decision that you can live with.