Growing Up Types – Loving People for Real

What is love? Is it on the inside or on the outside?  The answer is neither, love is not an appearance that you can see, feel or touch, love is a choice coupled with an attitude. There seem to be nothing beautiful about this caterpillar; however it is going to be a very beautiful butterfly. So if you want to love someone do not depend on looks, just make a choice to love them and have an attitude of not  being conceited or arrogant that causes you to be inflated with pride;  you must choose not to be rude (unmannerly) and not to act unbecomingly. An attitude of love does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it nor does it give any attention to a suffered wrong.  So, the next time you say to someone “I love you” make sure that there are no conditions.  They can do nothing to cause you to love them nor can they stop you from loving them because you choose who you will love and who you will not love.